There’s nothing scary or out of the ordinary about being divorced and dating again, and the online dating world is here to help you get your love life back on track. EliteSingles is the place to do it – our site is home to mature, intelligent people finding their path to like-minded matches and long-lasting love. Thousands of divorced singles have made a new start using our services; isn’t it about time you take back control and join them?
Divorced Dating with EliteSingles
Unsure of whether to start divorced dating? Rest assured, finding love again is incredibly common. According to the Pew Research Center, 4 in 10 marriages in the US include at least one spouse who had been married before1. Online dating is leading the charge for divorced singles making new connections with one another – and, of course, with people who have never married before. Establishing a new long-term relationship isn’t just possible, it’s actually incredibly likely.
EliteSingles is one of the very best choices for those searching out true romance; finding like-minded love couldn’t be easier with our intelligent matchmaking system. More and more singles each month are signing up with our site to get serious about their love life and our divorced singles are no different.
Once you complete our simple registration process you can start meeting compatible members; we’ll send you 3-7 new matches per day. These are the people we think are best suited to you – based on your personality match, location, income and education – and therefore merit your consideration. Meeting these people first and foremost should give you the best chance possible of a long and happy future together, though you can search out additional profiles using our ‘Have you met…’ feature too… This is divorced dating made easy!
Who uses EliteSingles?
Intelligent, mature and – very often – divorced singles make use of our service to find long-lasting love. EliteSingles is proud to say that 85% of our users are highly educated, and the average age of our users is mid-forties, with members typically ranging between 30-55 years old. With a wide diversity of careers, our members also tend to be professional singles, trying to find committed love alongside leading a busy and successful career.
One thing we’re certain of is that EliteSingles users all have this in common: they’re seeking like-minded love that will last. We know this because we verify new profiles to ensure our members are genuinely looking for love. If you’re divorced, dating and fit our average member profile, be sure to sign up immediately!
Divorced and Dating – Tips for Divorced Singles
Dating after divorce comes with its own challenges. But there are also plenty of advantages too; you’re older, wiser, surer of what you want and need from a relationship – in theory at least! But there’s often some work to do before you can be ready to date again. EliteSingles spoke with integrative psychiatrist Hilda Burke on the subject, and her advice is simple: “Letting go of a marriage invariably involves forgiveness” she says, “many people who are going through a divorce may blame themselves for deciding to get married or even for having been in the relationship in the first place. This is fruitless.”2
Burke also strongly advocates forgiving your ex-partner too, to “nullify the debt you feel they owe you.” Not dealing with these issues first only ensures you’ll carry excess emotional baggage into your next serious relationship. But, most importantly, divorced singles just need to keep their chins up; there’s not much in the world more stressful than a divorce, but getting through to the other side will make you stronger in the long run. To be divorced, dating and looking forward to the future again is a really good goal to keep in mind.
1 Pew Research Centre, November 2014 (http://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2014/11/14/four-in-ten-couples-are-saying-i-do-again/)
2 From an original EliteSingles interview, conducted February 2016.