Best Dating App & Site for Elite Women

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Whether you’re a woman driven toward success or you’ve already achieved a certain standing and are seeking a partner who has as much to offer as you do, then the EliteSingles dating app is for you. EliteSingles is a dating app and website that caters to successful, affluent, and well-educated singles. With over 13 million active members around the world and 381,000 members joining each month, there are bound to be many compatible singles right in your area.

Unlike a swiping app like Tinder or Bumble, EliteSingles uses a proprietary matching algorithm that connects members based on compatibility. Instead of idling away your valuable time swiping and screening meaningless introductions, you can review a small, curated list of members who have the attributes you’re seeking.

You can sign up for a Basic membership on the website and upgrade to Premium on the site or app if you like what you see.

Best Dating App for Women

There are several reasons why elite women choose our app when searching for a partner. EliteSingles gets it right where other apps fall short. Here are some of the most common complaints that we hear from women about competitor apps:

  • Flooded with undesirable connection requests
  • Unappealing options
  • Members are just looking to hook up
  • Says it’s “inclusive” but caters mostly to heterosexual matches
  • Frequent scammers
  • Creepy matches

We understand your pain, which is why we designed EliteSingles to eliminate many of the most common problems that women face on competitor apps:

Psychological Personality Test

When you sign up for EliteSingles, you’ll be asked a few basic identification and preference questions: your name, age, location, gender, and the gender of the partner you’re seeking. You’ll then begin a personality quiz. This is a proven test that measures compatibility on a number of factors.

Our proprietary test doesn’t just match you with members who give similar answers. It helps our algorithms determine whether both members’ qualities match the others’ needs and wants. This serves several purposes. For one, it allows members to focus on fewer options, all of which are much more likely to be more appealing than random swiping. The test only takes about ten minutes, but that’s enough to deter all but the most determined scammers.

A Focus On Safe Dating

EliteSingles has a designated team that’s tasked with reviewing new accounts, investigating reports, and reviewing violations. We take all reports seriously and will remove members for harassment, inappropriate behavior, and other violations of our terms of service. EliteSingles is a closed ecosystem. Only members can view profiles. Additionally, unlike some of our competitors, we do not share data with third parties. All communications are encrypted, which means that your communications can only be read if someone logs into your account with the password.

True Inclusion

EliteSingles is designed to appeal to well-educated and successful individuals, but the platform does not discriminate. Anyone over the legal age can create an account. However, the site is designed to introduce members to one another based on their stated preferences. Individuals of any race, gender, religion, sexuality, nationality, or background are welcome at EliteSingles. Members who demonstrate intolerance will have their accounts suspended or deleted. In other words, if someone on EliteSingles is making you feel unsafe or unwelcome, report their account. We will take it from there.

Downloading the Dating App

The EliteSingles dating app is available for Apple and Android devices. You can download it from the AppStore or Google Play. You can sign up through the app, but to access all of our features, you need to upgrade to a Premium account. You can use your Basic Account on any standard web browser.

Here are some of the advanced features you can unlock with a Premium account:

  • Free Use of the Dating App – Enjoy browsing profiles and communicating with other members while you’re commuting to work, between appointments, or relaxing at a bar or cafe.
  • Unlimited Messaging – This is an essential feature for safety. With in-app messaging, you can keep your contact information and social media private until you are ready to share it with the other member.
  • View All Member Photos – With the premium account, you’ll be able to see all of the photos that other members have made public.
  • Frequent Suggestion – EliteSingles prioritizes premium member profiles.
  • Read Receipts – Premium members can see when another member has read their messages. Maybe it’s time for a follow-up message.
  • “Have You Met?” – This is a boost for Premium accounts that asks other members if they’ve met the featured person.
  • Unlock the Full Personality Profile – Premium account holders can fill out their entire personality profile, which helps the algorithm finetune your search.
  • Unlock Additional Search Parameters – Narrow your search to limit the number of false leads you receive.

The Basic platform is designed to get members acquainted with our site’s features, but for optimal results, we highly recommend upgrading to a Premium account. We have several plans that work on a sliding scale. The longer your commitment, the less expensive the plan.

Personalized Dating Experience

One of the primary factors that separates EliteSingles from other sites on the market is its built-in personalization software. As members accept and reject profiles, the system learns about your individual preferences, which helps to improve its suggestions. Of course, if you don’t like the selections you’re seeing, you can change your search parameters.

You are also free to browse other member profiles on the site. It may turn out that you find a person interesting that did not check the virtual boxes on your list. That’s fine. EliteSingles is not designed to limit you in any way.

Verified Profiles

If you’ve ever been approached by a scammer on a dating site, then you know the value of verified profiles. We help members avoid the annoyance, financial loss, and possible heartbreak of scams by verifying accounts when they register. And this just isn’t some AI algorithm passing over the information looking for signs of fraud. We employ a team of human profile checkers to review applications. If someone does slip past our scrutiny, we have their information on file.

Privacy Protection

Some women don’t mind being on dating sites. Others would rather not have it known that they’re seeking a relationship on a dating site due to professional or personal reasons. All accounts on EliteSingles are only visible on our platform, and only premium members can see all of the photos that you post.

Additionally, we do not share the data we collect with third parties. All communications through the app are protected with end-to-end encryption, which means that only the sender and receiver can read the messages. If you delete a conversation, it is irretrievable. However, your match will remain in tact in case you change your mind and want to talk to the other person again.

Safe Dating

We take every measure to keep EliteSingles safe. However, women face safety challenges on any dating app, regardless of the security measures in place. Here are some tips to ensure your safety on EliteSingles.

Don’t Disclose Personal Information on Your Profile

Your profile should tell other members about your personality and what you’re looking for. It’s not the place to disclose personal contact information. Be careful about posting links to your social media, as well. You should also be careful about using pictures that might give clues about your home address or place of business.

Use The App Messenger

With the Premium plan, you have unlimited messaging with read receipts. You should use the app’s private messaging until you get to know the other member. Not only does this help you avoid giving out your contact information and social media, but it also allows you to report a member if you suspect they’re a scammer or have otherwise violated our terms of service.

Have a Video Pre-Date

Before you meet someone in person, get them on camera with a video date on Zoom, FaceTime, Teams, etc. That way, you can be sure that the person in the photos is the same as the person you’ve been communicating with.

Meet in a Public Place

Choose a place where you feel comfortable meeting. A bookstore, coffee shop, busy park, or restaurant are all examples of places that will help ensure your safety. If you plan to go to a second location, use your own transportation.

Use a Safety Person

Tell a reliable family member or friend about your plans. Send them a text message when you arrive on your date and when you’re about to leave. If you go to a second location, make sure you update your plans with your safety person. Provide your safety person with the name and contact information for your date.

It’s essential that you take responsibility for your own safety when meeting a member for the first time. If it goes well, you can remove these guardrails over time.

Dating Tips and Advice

Elite women are used to succeeding, but dating on an app can be tricky terrain. Follow these tips to ensure that you’re just as successful in dating as you have been in life.

Have a Conversation Game Plan

You don’t have to map out every minute of a first date, but you should have an idea about what you hope to accomplish. For example, you may want to know more about your date. What questions do you want to ask? By the same token, what information do you want to share about yourself? If the plan is just to feel each other out, think about what you’d like to talk about.

Limit The Scope of the First Date

The first in-person date should be somewhere between 30 and 90 minutes. By that time, you should know whether you want to meet again for a second date. With this in mind, grabbing coffee or a drink is a better idea than lunch or dinner. This also gives you an out in case the date isn’t going well.

Dress Appropriately

Many women make the mistake of dressing down for a first date. The assumption is that if the other member like the way they look at their worst, they will definitely like it when they’re more dolled up. You don’t need to use all of your magic, but you should look appropriate for the occasion. (This is also great advice for any men who might stumble upon this article.)

Join a Thriving Community

EliteSingles is not a site for everyone, but if you’re a single, successful, well-educated woman, it’s probably exactly what you’re looking for. Registration is free, and you can upgrade to a Premium account without having to re-register. Join the millions of members searching for a connection on EliteSingles. Sign up today!