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Over two thirds of our members hold either a Bachelor’s, Master’s or Doctorate degree

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Joining our international Elite platforms with an average gender split of 43% male and 57% female


Serious Online Dating

If you're serious about finding lasting love then EliteSingles is the right online dating site for you. We believe that real happiness starts with a truly like-minded match, which is why our passion is helping compatible American singles connect. This is something we have vast experience with: EliteSingles is part of Affinitas GmbH, a global network of leading online dating sites. As a company, we create an average of 2500 new couples each month in more than 20 countries worldwide – including right here in the US. That's why we're considered one of the best dating sites for long-term love.

Genuine, Professional People

We curate our site to ensure we introduce our members to interesting, like-minded single men and single women. Not only are our members mostly educated and successful single professionals aged 30-55, but they are united by a common goal: finding genuine love and long-term commitment through internet dating. We aid them in their search by carefully curating the EliteSingles experience: matching couples based on compatibility, offering expert, supportive relationship advice, and unlike other dating sites, removing non-active users that do not seem serious about online dating. With EliteSingles you'll meet singles that suit you.

Relationship Advice

In conjunction with psychologists and relationship experts, our editorial team is devoted to bringing you useful dating tips and relationship advice. We provide all you need to know about online dating itself and getting back in the dating game, like how to write a successful profile to preparing you for that all important first date! Our articles contain insightful survey results and leading psychological research on the topic of love. Unlike other dating websites, EliteSingles aims to help you through the entire process of finding a long term relationship and assist you in putting your best foot forward when it comes to love.

Intelligent Matchmaking

At EliteSingles, we offer a streamlined approach to internet dating. To make the searching process smoother, we suggest suitable profiles to you, delivering 3-7 potential matches a day. To help ensure match compatibility, we base these suggestions on a three-fold process; taking your relationship preferences, your location in the US, and your individual personality test answers into account. We believe that this system gives you the best chance to meet someone truly like-minded and to find long-term love. At EliteSingles we cater for all races, religions and ages, so whether you're looking for older dating, Christian dating, single parent dating, gay dating or anything in between, you'll find it in our dating site.

Discretion and Security

We have worked hard to create a conscientious, professional dating site where American singles of all ages can feel free to focus on finding love. To this end, we are dedicated to making sure we always treat your personal information with the highest confidentiality: your privacy is our priority. Our Customer Care team vets all new dating profiles to confirm authenticity, and we employ ID Authentication, Manual Profile Verification, SSL Encryption and Fraud Detection Systems as standard, ensuring that, when you join our dating agency, your data is safe with us.

Exceptional Customer Service

Our customer care team is committed to your success and making sure your online dating experience is smooth, safe and stress free. Our dedicated team is on hand to offer personalized support and to answer any technical queries should you ever need help. Our dating services can also be accessed both at home and on mobile, making EliteSingles a dating site that can be adapted to suit a busy lifestyle – whatever your preferences and wherever you are in the United States.

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