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165,000
New Members Per Month
Total number of new registrations on our US Elite platform every month.
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82%
University Graduates
Over 80% of our US members hold at least a Bachelor degree.
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Success Rate
Every 8 min. a single finds love through our services.

Meet San Diego singles and find your next great love

If you want to meet relationship-minded San Diego singles who get you, EliteSingles can help. Our members are dynamic, interesting individuals looking for long term love, and we're here to help them connect. We use in-depth profiling and refined matchmaking techniques to ensure our partner proposals are likely to spark compatibility. It's San Diego dating made that much easier!
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San Diego Dating with EliteSingles

Finding love should be an exciting, fun adventure - not a difficult struggle. That's why the EliteSingles platform was created. We're here to help take the struggle out of the dating process by introducing you to the kind of San Diego singles you actually want to be meeting. It starts with our matchmaking - by completing our personality test and outlining your relationship criteria, we are able to send you 3-7 compatible matches a day. And. if you want to meet even more single men and women in San Diego, you can also have a look at member profiles through the 'Have you met....' feature. Ready to streamline the San Diego dating scene? Join EliteSingles today and see who’s around the corner!

Meeting Great San Diego Singles with Us

As well as sending you great partner proposals. EliteSingles is here to help you relax and enjoy the online dating process. We manually check every new profile to ensure that the single men and women on our site are genuine about their search for lasting love; and our customer service team is readily available to assist with any queries you may have. We also have an online magazine which offers expert relationship advice and dating tips. We’re here to help you every step of the way!

Joining EliteSingles is also a great way to streamline the San Diego dating scene - especially if you use our handy mobile dating app. Designed with our members in mind (many of whom are busy professionals), our purpose-built dating app can be downloaded for iOS or Android and is the ideal way to find love while on-the-go - being 'too busy' to find love is no longer an excuse!

Ready to get started? Join us and start meeting singles today!

Acing the San Diego Dating Scene

With its outrageously good weather, San Diego dating should be a whirl of beach dates, outdoor dining, and sunshine. But despite the fantastic climate, many San Diegan singles are feeling lost when it comes to romance - there are great things to do, but it's hard to find people to do them with!

This dilemma is the reason that so many SoCal singles are turning to dating sites like EliteSingles to streamline the process of finding love. Our members make great dates: with an average age of 30-55, a range of professional careers, and a shared desire to find a meaningful match, the men and women on our site are interesting and ready to be in it for the long haul. Our focus on compatibility means that we encourage diversity too - as long as you're serious about seeking a real relationship, you're welcome on EliteSingles.

Want a meaningful match? Discover how to meet gay singles, Latino and Hispanic singles, Asian singles, and lesbian singles on our site

Romantic Things To Do in San Diego

So someone interesting has caught your attention, you’ve been exchanging messages and now it’s time to find some San Diego date ideas. The best thing about falling in love in this city is that it oozes romance; from the romantic restaurants to sunny beaches, it’s essentially built for people to have endless starry-eyed moments.  You can find our favorite picks below, so get dating!

Want more local dating tips? Try our San Diego Trolley date idea map, discover our Orange County date ideas, or take a weekend away with our guide to Los Angeles dating

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A romantic San Diego evening

San Diego is a great town for a romantic evening. Start your date night at 'destination distillery' You & Yours Distilling Co - a cocktail bar where the spirits are made on-site (you can even book a distillery tour if you and your date are so inclined). Founded by Laura Johnson, one of the only female head distillers in America, this East Village spot is no mere novelty: the cocktails are killer, and the inviting space offers great date ambience.

Once the hunger kicks in, head over to 5th Avenue for dinner at Asti Ristorante. Specializing in Northern Italian cuisine, this place is laid-back and charming, yet still manages to be one of the most romantic restaurants in the Gaslamp Quarter. Snag a seat on the patio for an evening of delicious dining and dreamy ambience.

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Day time dating in San Diego

Looking for first date ideas in San Diego? Meeting for coffee is always a winner, and SD has plenty of great cafes that are ideal for first dates. Try Krakatoa in Golden Hill - this tiki/volcano themed coffee shop is so friendly that you'll feel first date nerves instantly dissolving. What's more, the huge deck is tree-lined, shady, and welcoming and the food and drinks are delicious - the orange-blossom latte is a definite must-try.

You can't talk about San Diego dating tips without suggesting at least one craft brewery. While most San Diego singles already have a favorite to introduce a date to, we have to mention Ballast Point's Little Italy tasting room: with their mix of beloved Ballast brews and new, experimental beers, (not to mention a beer-food pairing menu), it's a must-visit.

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Making the most of SD

Despite the reputation, SD dating isn't all about great food and craft beers. There's plenty to see and do in this city - and, because this is Southern California, much of it involves the ocean. Simply strolling on the beach makes for a great date (especially at sunset), but if you want to really spoil your date, take them out on the water for a dolphin/whale watching tour with the likes of Offshore Blue Adventures. Magic!

Don't have your sea-legs but want to keep the animal-theme going? Take a trip to the world-famous San Diego Zoo. Voted the best zoo in the entire world by trip advisor, this is the kind of place you can come back to again and again. The best bit? Even if you've already been to the zoo (which you probably have), going with someone special feels like discovering it anew.