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Want to meet Rochester singles? We’re here to help.

If you’re wishing to date smart and savvy Rochester singles, but are struggling to know where to look, then we’re the dating site for you. The majority of our members are single professionals looking for long-lasting love. Join us today!
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Meeting Rochester singles with EliteSingles

In our busy city lives, often it can be difficult to meet new people and create a lasting connection with them. If you’re looking for a relationship but wondering how to begin your search, all it takes is a little bit of contemplation over what type of person you’re looking for. EliteSingles can introduce you to intelligent and interesting Rochester singles. We use a smart profiling system in combination with your personal search criteria to match you with like-minded people with relationship potential. Sign up today and start your search for someone special.

Want to know more about how our personality test works? It's based on Costa and McCrae's famous ‘Five Factor Model’ of personality traits; our test (which every new member takes) gets an understanding of how open, conscientious, extraverted, agreeable and neurotic you are, and matches you with compatible potential partners. Register, take the test and we'll send you 3-7 matches daily - it couldn't be simpler to start meeting Rochester singles with us. 

Since we understand that many of our members are busy professionals, our handy, purpose-built iOS app is designed to help you find lasting love on the go. Download and sign up now!

Register today and see who you can meet!

The Rochester singles life

One of the benefits of living in Rochester is despite being part of a lively city, our people are chilled out. In fact we have recently been named by CNN as the second least stressed city in America.1 However, life can be tough for those of us without someone to share it with. Have no worries - EliteSingles can help you meet some easy-going and happy Rochester singles.

Date ideas in Rochester

Once you’ve met someone who you’re interested in on EliteSingles, why not suggest taking them out on a date? In Rochester there are plenty of activities and places to go to meet singles you're interested in; from ice-skating to fine-dining, you’re bound to find something that’ll suit you both! Here are some date ideas to help you start sharing memories in Rochester with that special someone...

Not in Rochester? We have date ideas for cities right across the US - check out our local dating page for a full list...


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Visit a vineyard

We are lucky here in Rochester to be blessed with rich and fertile land surrounding our city. Our glacially-deposited soils inspired early grape cultivation, which led The Finger Lakes of New York to become the largest and most celebrated wine producing region in the Eastern United States. With several hundred wineries easily accessible from Rochester, impress your date with a trip to a vineyard and try some of the region’s quality wine.

Suggest to your date visiting wineries on the Keuka Lake Wine Trail, the wineries here are family-owned and scenery is breath-taking.

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See a show

Our cold winter months can be tough for Rochester singles. Take shelter and warm up by heading inside a cozy bar. Get acquainted over drinks and dance with your date at Lux Lounge or the Flour City Station, where live music is performed almost every night of the week. 

If you meet singles more interested in a dramatic performance, suggest seeing a show at the Geva Theatre to your date, and bond over your shared theatrical experience!

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Wonder at wildlife

Up here in Rochester we are surrounded by beautiful landscape. Drive out to Montezuma National Wildlife Refuge, and be startled by starlings and other wild birds migrating across the skies.

Are you too busy to take a trip out of the city? Meet your date at the Genesee River’s High Falls in Letchworth State Park, our inner city natural spectacular. Pick up a couple of coffees, sit down and get to know one another chatting on a bench nearby.