50 Best Flirty Texts To Kickstart Conversation

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Sometimes, knowing what to say when you’re dating is tough. You don’t want to come across too strong, but you also don’t want to end up ‘just friends’. Thinking of flirty conversation starters can be really awkward, but it doesn’t have to be! Here are our suggestions for the best flirty texts to kickstart the conversation and get things moving to the next level!

Flirty Texts To Start Conversation

The best flirty relationship starts slow. Many people can be put off by too much too soon, and it can make you look a tad desperate or sleazy. However, subtly commenting on a part of their profile or their appearance (keep it PG, though!) is a great way to start. Here are some ideas for flirty things to say when you haven’t spoken yet!

50. Hey there! You look super fun.

49. Hey! How do you feel about forward guys/women?

48. Hi, I love your profile picture! Where was that taken?

47. Hey, I love (insert interest) too. You must have great taste!

46. Hello. I see you like (insert interest here). How do you feel about girls/guys who are into it?

45. Hello! I see you love (insert interest). So do I! Would you like to do it together sometime?

44. Wow, you look like a lot of fun. Tell me more about yourself!

43. Hi there. I’m not into raisins, but if you offered me a date, how could I say no!

42. Hey, I don’t do this much, but you’re too pretty/handsome to not text!

41. Hello! You have such a nice profile picture, I couldn’t resist messaging you.

40. I’m no clairvoyant, but I can see a future between you and I.

Flirty Texts Before the First Date

39. Hey, you have really beautiful (eyes, hair, smile). I can’t wait to see it/them in person.

38. We seem to get on really well, and I think you’re great. How about meeting up sometime?

37. Hey, I didn’t know angels could join EliteSingles? You just proved me wrong!

36. Do you like a man/woman who makes the first move?

35. How would you like to get tacos soon? I may be small and green, but I do avocar,do.

34. Hey, you like like my third wife. I’ve only had two!

33. I have been thinking about you all day, I can’t get you out of my head!

32. Let’s quit the small talk and get to the flirting!

31. What a beautiful morning for a flirty text or two!

30. I can’t stop thinking about you. When are we going to meet?

29. If you could be taken on a date anywhere of your choosing, where would it be?

28. How about I sneak you away for a romantic meal one day soon?

27. What would you say if I took you out for tacos/a steak/oysters one day soon?

26. I think my friends/family would really like you. I can’t wait to tell them all about you!

25. There’s a great (bar/cafe/restaurant) near me that I think you would love. How about I take you for a (drink/bite to eat) sometime?

24. Any plans next weekend? I have a little something up my sleeve that I think you might like…

23. Here’s the question though. Dogs or cats?

22. Here’s the question though. Mimosa or Bloody Mary’s for brunch?

21. Let’s cut to the chase. I wanna ask you out. What do you say?

20. Hey, good lookin’!

Flirty Texts After the First Date

19. You make me feel 18 again – just with less acne!

18. Is that a new picture on your profile? Looking hotter than ever.

17. I don’t need a beer tonight. I’m already intoxicated by you.

16. Who would have guessed I’d be lucky enough to be texting such a hottie?

15. You make me feel like a giggling schoolgirl!

14. (insert romantic song) just came on the radio. It made me think of you!

13. If you’d have told me (20/30/40) years ago I’d be sending flirty texts to a hottie in (2019), I wouldn’t have believed you.

12. You will be the last thing on my mind before I fall asleep tonight.

11. I don’t like to gamble, but you won the genetic lottery!

10. I don’t work for UNESCO, but you are a site of astounding natural beauty.

9. Of all your beautiful curves, my favorite is your smile.

8. I wish you knew how beautiful you are to me.

7. I’m trying out a new shirt/dress/outfit. Could I send you a picture and you tell me what you think?

6. Want to hear a secret?

5. Did cupid manufacture my keyboard? Because he put U and I together!

4. It’s cool that you don’t want any (more) kids. But that doesn’t mean we can’t try later…

3. You make my heart feel full!

2. I have the image of you at (site of the last date) scorched into my mind. You are a vision!

1. I want to have you all to myself tonight!

So, there you have it! Make sure you keep watching this space for more flirty conversation starters, dating tips, love advice, and much more. Enjoy!


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