What to Wear on a First Date: Elite Tips for Looking Good
Feminine, Sexy and Smart
Picking cute date outfits for a first date can be just as stressful as the date itself. Should you wear heels or flats? Pleated skirt, shorts, or skinny jeans? And how in the world do you even coordinate jewelry anyway? Sometimes it’s understandable to be envious of men. Surely, they’ve got it easy. (We’ll get to why that’s not true later.) The first step to narrowing down what to wear on a first date is to figure out the setting for the date so that you can dress for the occasion, and then it’s just a matter of following a few simple guidelines.
Casual date outfit
Meeting for coffee means you’ll be in a more relaxed setting compared to other dates, so go for something casual and stylish. The key is to look effortless, a feat we all know is easier said than done. This date should reflect what you would normally wear on a day-to-day basis, meaning you should definitely stay in your comfort zone. This is not the time to try something new or wear expensive designer brands to show off. Instead, go for the girl-next-door look by letting your hair down and wearing the cute date outfits you know you look good in. It doesn’t matter if that means jeans or a skirt, a swing dress or a sweater, flats or booties, just so long as you’re comfortable and feel confident.
What not to wear – That being said, you don’t want to come across as too confident, and that goes for both extremes. This is not the right time to show off that little black cocktail dress and six-inch heels, nor will it be appreciated for you to saunter in with pajama pants and flip flops.
Dinner date outfit
Now this is the right time for that black cocktail dress that shows off your figure and flashes those sexy legs. But be careful not to show too much skin. Ideally, and this goes for any date, you’ll want to choose only one asset and highlight that, especially with your dinner date outfit. For example, if you do go for a short dress, you’ll want to keep your arms covered so they won’t compete for attention down below. Or if you want to accentuate your chest, wear a dress that at least reaches your knees or opt instead for form-fitting pants. Finally, add some elegant high heels to complete your ensemble.
What not to wear – Skip the shorts and leave your flats at home. You don’t need sky-high stilettos to look good. In fact, sometimes it can be too much. However, classy two-inch heels will give you more elegance than any pair of flats can hope to accomplish.
Outdoor date outfit
Not every date will be at a café or restaurant. Sometimes the best dates happen outside, such as having a picnic in a park or going to a ball game or even strolling through a farmers’ market. Remember to highlight just one asset, so if you’re going to go for shorts to show off your legs, consider wearing a lightweight cardigan and sun hat. During the winter, you want to keep warm and comfortable, but try to wear something form-fitting that accentuates your figure, and if it’s too cold for any outdoor date outfit that requires no less than three layers and that oversized jacket, consider taking the date indoors.
What not to wear – Of course, you should dress according to the weather, but that doesn’t mean to don a bikini top and short shorts during a hot summer’s day or to bundle up so much in the winter that you look like the marshmallow man.
Don’t forget: Makeup and Jewelry
Makeup can be tricky. How much is too much? Some women prefer to go au naturel and others like to make their eyes pop with plenty of eyeliner and mascara, so there are no hard and fast rules here. Again, it bears repeating: stay in your comfort zone. If you don’t normally apply a lot of makeup, don’t start now in an effort to impress your date. You’ll want to feel confident, and it’s difficult to do that when you feel the need to run to a mirror every five minutes.
Jewelry can be that little, extra final touch that turns ordinary cute date outfits into stunning ones. Jewelry catches and leads the eye, so use them to bring attention to those assets you want to highlight. If you opted to wear something with a low neckline, wearing a big brooch or ornamental necklace would be the best way to focus all eyes on that part of your anatomy. It is important to not only match with your cute date outfits, though, but also to choose the accessories that illuminate your natural tones. For example, maybe turquoise earrings would go better with your eyes instead of ruby earrings. And be careful not to overdo it and go crazy with too many accessories!
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