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Meet Relationship-Ready Tulsa Singles: Start Dating With Us!

Dating in Tulsa but having no luck meeting singles on your wavelength? It’s time to try something new! At EliteSingles, all of our members are seeking the same thing: long-lasting love with someone deeply compatible. Our site was built for dynamic singles and vibrant professionals, and we’re out to prove that a busy life doesn't mean that you're too busy to find a meaningful match. With our personality-based matchmaking and user base of interesting Tulsa singles, shaking up your dating life with us couldn't be easier...
Tulsa singles scene

Dating in Tulsa with EliteSingles

Transforming your personal Tulsa dating scene starts with our easy registration process – and could end with you deeply in love! At EliteSingles we use our tried-and-tested formula to match you with truly compatible people - our in-depth matchmaking system can bring you as many as 3-7 partner suggestions per day. These matches are based off the results of our unique personality test, meaning that each one is someone we believe will be compatible with your outlook, lifestyle, and relationship requirements - and you can search for even more Tulsa singles using our Have You Met... feature.. If you're seeking companionship and compatibility, EliteSingles is the place to start.

Streamlining the Tulsa Dating Scene

Not only are the matches on our site selected with compatibility in mind, you can be assured that the single men and women you meet with us are relationship-minded. To help ensure that all of our members are genuinely here searching for a commitment and a deeper connection, our customer care team manually verifies 100% of the new profiles on our site. 

That's not the only way that we help streamline the Tulsa dating scene. As a site designed for single professionals we know how to fit dating into even the busiest of lives - our site is full mobile-optimized and our matchmaking service brings suggestions to you, saving you precious time online.

We've streamlined our service even further with the creation of the EliteSingles dating app. Designed to be compatible with both iOS and Android, our app gives you access to the very best of the EliteSingles service on the go. Now you can find long-lasting love on the morning commute, in line at the deli or even at the dentist’s office! This is dating in Tulsa on your terms.

Register today and see who you can meet!

The Tulsa Singles Scene

The cultural side of Tulsa makes it a great place to date, but meeting new people outside your friendship group here isn’t easy. An ever-increasing amount of the Tulsa singles scene is heading online, with people of all ages and backgrounds giving dating sites a go. EliteSingles is a great place to meet people from all walks of life; whether you’re looking for specifics like single parent dating, black dating or Catholic dating, we can help! If you’re mature, smart, and looking for a love that lasts, you’ll fit right in. 

Read More: Interested in meeting Christian singles, Jewish singles or Hispanic singles in Tulsa?

Date Ideas in Tulsa, OK

EliteSingles research suggests that keeping it simple on a first date is preferable for the vast majority of singles. Meet for drinks in a trendy bar or café, or choose a restaurant you’ve always wanted to try. Tulsa’s unique cuisine makes eating out the perfect bonding experience for new couples – suggest a traditional Oklahoma BBQ joint at your peril though, it may be too soon to get messy in front of each other!

By the time you reach your second or third date, and you want to start really getting to know each other, try exploring more of Tulsa’s cultural side…or finally get the courage to try that BBQ! Otherwise, make the most of dating in Tulsa, and check out our favorite date ideas in the section below.

Want to take a romantic weekend trip outside of Tulsa? Check out our tips for dating in Dallas, or in Nashville, or find more cities across the US on our local dating page

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Tulsa wining and dining

If you're in the mood for a night at a romantic Tulsa bar, look no further than the Brady District's Valkyrie. Their continually evolving drinks list is a thing of rare beauty: from craft beers to bewitching craft cocktails (all made from fresh ingredients), it's a wonderful place to come and try something new with your date. The ambience is also very romance-friendly - think soft lighting and inviting booths to cozy up in.

If you're more in the mood for a dinner date, you have many dreamy, delicious restaurants to choose from in this city. Try that romantic Tulsa institution, The French Hen. For more than 30 years, this French-American fusion bistro has been delighting starry-eyed couples who keep coming back for the freshly made French food, the romantic patio, and the swoon-worthy ambience.

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Plan a romantic day out in Tulsa

Tulsa singles looking for date ideas that celebrate this city should try exploring the Tulsa River Walk. Set along the western bank of the Arkansas River, this is a true slice of  Tulsa romance. Whether you picnic along the riverbank, whether you use the walk to get to a local attraction like the Aquarium, or whether you just use the walk as a stroll in itself (great for getting actually talk to your date), it's a wonderful day out.

If all that walking makes you and your date a little bit hungry, be sure to stop in at Robin's Roast Coffee for a reviving coffee and a tasty panini. Set right by the riverwalk, this cafe is as convenient as is it is delicious. It's a fun date idea too: they're open late, and Robin's often has live music sessions - it's the ideal way to make your date last and last!

Wander round Tulsa’s Botanic Garden

Frequently described as one of the city’s best hidden gems, Tulsa Botanic Garden is a beautiful setting for a date any time of the year - think vibrant spring flowers, summer picnics, gorgeous fall foliage, and crisp winter scenes. And, not only is a stroll through the gardens a wonderful way to reconnect with nature, it's a really romantic date too. Extra points if you wander down by the lake as the sun is setting!

If you're dating someone who loves to keep fit, or if you just want a more active date idea, head a little out to Mohawk Park. Whether you want to picnic or try out a hiking trail, play a round of golf or take a romantic walk around Tulsa Zoo, this park can provide. And, whatever activity you choose, it will feel that much sweeter with someone special by your side. Meet that person with EliteSingles - get started here!