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Gay dating – professional men seeking men with EliteSingles

Sick of frivolous gay dating sites? Find lasting love with EliteSingles; our members are 100% verified, professional men seeking men. Join today – with loads of eligible gay singles seeking a deeper connection with us, love may just be a few clicks away!
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Gay Dating with EliteSingles

While there are a lot of gay dating sites for men seeking men out there, not all of them cater to those who are seriously searching for a lasting relationship. EliteSingles is different. We believe that a long term relationship requires two people to really gel, which is why we prioritize an intelligent matchmaking process and create connections that we're confident can go the distance.

It couldn't be easier to start dating with us; simply register with our service, take our in-depth questionnaire and start building your personal profile - you'll be meeting like-minded gay singles in no time at all!

Men seeking men: Find your next partner with us!

Once you've completed our personality test, you'll then receive 3-7 partner matches daily. In this way, we streamline the online dating experience so that you can focus on the people you're truly suited to and don't waste time and energy on dead-end connections. 

What's more, our dating agency is here to help you get the most out of our service throughout the entire process of finding love, starting with our handy guide to online dating. 

Professional Men Seeking Men

It’s not always easy to find a long-term partner on the gay dating scene, particularly if you have a clear idea of what you want in a man. Bars and clubs in the US tend to be more for fun than the future and not everyone wants to combine their romantic and professional lives. But there is one place where it is possible to make that long-term dream a reality – and that’s online.

Many gay dating sites have a bit of a bad reputation however; perfect for casual encounters and not much else, it's difficult to know where to turn when you're ready to get serious about gay dating online. Enter EliteSingles. Our members are all here looking for lasting love and deeper connection, and since our customer care team verify each and every new profile, you can approach your matches knowing they're well-intentioned and are genuinely compatible with you. 

Catering for professional men seeking men, our membership base includes many eligible gay singles who are both mature and highly-educated. The typical EliteSingles member is aged 30-55, and a massive 82% hold a Bachelor's Degree or better. Sound like you? You're in the right place!

Struggling to find the time to meet new people? Why not try our gay dating site on the go? The EliteSingles iOS app is designed to help you squeeze finding lasting love into your hectic schedule - try it today!

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Gay Dating in the US

In many practical ways, gay dating in the US is the easiest it’s ever been. All across the country, and particularly in big cities like New York, San Francisco and Washington DC, gay men, gay women and LGBT singles are finding love and settling down together. Yet, easier overall doesn’t always mean easier on an individual level. If you’ve been single for a while it can be all too easy to view tales of lasting love and marriage as some sort of urban relationship myth, meant only for the very handsome, the very rich or the very lucky! Rest assured, there are plenty of men seeking men just like you out there, who long for a lasting relationship too - we can help you find them.

Do you want to meet men with whom you are truly compatible? Then join EliteSingles today.   

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Dating on your schedule

A significant proportion of EliteSingles US members are busy professionals and, as a result, we have a created a dating site that can suit even the tightest schedule. Fully optimized for smart phones & tablets, with a handy iOS app also available, EliteSingles is ideal for men seeking men on the go.

Our service is likewise streamlined: our smooth matchmaking algorithm combines with a focus on customer safety and support. That means that your precious free time can be spent on the fun part of online dating – the dates themselves!

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Matches to suit the real you

We streamline our matchmaking process by getting to know the real you via our in-depth personality test. Based on the Five Factor model theory by McCrae and Costa, this test forms the backbone of the EliteSingles experience and the basis of our smart matchmaking.

This free test allows us to analyze your levels of openness, conscientiousness, extraversion, agreeableness and neuroticism. We then combine these results with your relationship plans and desired location, allowing us to introduce to the kind of American men you want to meet and embark on that all important first date.

Relationships that go the distance

We may have many diverse singles on our dating site, but they do have one thing in common: when it comes to love, they are looking for the real thing. This is why, when we suggest profiles to our users, we do so with long-term compatibility and, perhaps, marriage in mind.

This means that, if you’re gay, dating in the US, and ready for lasting love, EliteSingles can help you find it. We believe in bringing love to everyone who is serious about finding it and we work hard to ensure that our match suggestions are up to the task. Why not join us to today to meet yours?