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Join EliteSingles - Serious Dating for Serious Singles

Not everybody who uses online dating is looking for a serious relationship. Which is why it can be frustrating for singles looking for a long-term commitment. Stating your intentions to a potential partner isn’t enough, you need a dating website with members who are interested in serious dating. EliteSingles members are highly educated, professional singles looking for their soulmate. So, if you’re looking for serious dating and a long-lasting relationship, then you’re in the right place.
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Looking for a Serious Relationship?

Modern dating culture is fast-paced and, thanks to online dating, accessible to everyone. Whether you’re looking for 30s dating, mature dating, or Christian dating, you can find your special someone with ease online. But, just being present on an online dating website doesn’t imply that you are looking for a serious relationship, or are interested in serious dating at all.


EliteSingles was designed with long-term relationships in mind. Our members are men and women, aged between 30-65 who lead professional lives and are actively looking to forge a genuine connection with someone. From academics, to busy single parents, to farmers - our members come from all walks of life but the thing that unites them all is that they are pursuing serious dating - seriously.

If you’re looking for serious dating that will end in a commitment, then we also have lots of marriage-minded singles on our site. Which makes sense considering that studies have shown that marriages that have started through online dating are shown to be happier and couples more compatible than marriages started offline!

Serious Dating - Why Choose EliteSingles?

One of the unique ways we find our members compatible matches is our sophisticated matchmaking system. After all, successful dating is all about finding someone who shares your lifestyle, goals, and values.

Our matchmaking is based on a number of factors. First, our personality test based on the respected ‘Five Factor Model’ of personality traits. This tells us what you are like, what you like, and what traits a perfect potential partner should hold. Secondly, we ask what your expectations of your partner are. This allows us to only suggest matches that fit your specific preferences i.e. the distance you’d travel to meet someone, preferred age, and their desire to have children etc.

Once we have all your information and preferences, you can sit back and relax because at EliteSingles we send you matches rather than you looking for them. Our online matchmaker sends 3-7 suggestions per day of people who match your preferences and personality. This allows you to focus on dating completely.

Find Long-Lasting Love Today

So, what are you waiting for? Sign up to take your personality test and start meeting people looking for serious dating today.

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A Serious Dating App for Everyone

An app for serious dating? Yes, it does exist. The EliteSingles app is available on iOS and Android; simply put, if you have a smartphone then you can use this app. Our dating app is for people looking to create a long-lasting partnership but want the flexibility to date, chat, and flirt on-the-go. That way your dating life can fit around your schedule, not the other way around.

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The US Dating Specialist

Finding love in the US doesn’t always seem easy. From big cities like New York and Los Angeles to slower-paced areas like Sarasota or Hawaii, the modern mentality of ‘work hard, play hard’ makes it hard to date. However, EliteSingles has thousands of new US registrations every month meaning your chance of finding love has never been higher. Discover our local dating to find your perfect someone today.

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Safety and Security Online

You’ve nothing to fear when you join EliteSingles thanks to our strict safety and security protocols. Our excellent Customer Care team verifies each new user that joins the site, checking to see for any red flags and deleting users who leave their profiles inactive. We’ve also compiled an Online Dating Safety Guide as a resource for our users.